1. Give your wife a dozen roses. On each stem attach
a note for a future date—to do something that she would enjoy. (For
example, “Go to the symphony.”)
2. If possible, go on a date with your spouse to a
restaurant that you enjoyed when you first met. After you order your
meal, take some time to write down favorite memories from the past year.
Then share your lists.
3. Have 11 roses delivered to your wife, and then give her a 12th yourself while reading her a love poem.
4. Fill a large box with helium balloons and special
gifts for Valentine’s Day. The woman who suggested this said that her
gifts included “new sleep shorts for him and a new nightgown for me, a
box of chocolate-covered strawberries and red napkins ... some new
candles, and a romantic CD. He got the hint. And loved the weekend.”
5. Create an intimate Valentine’s Day evening at
home, without the children. The woman who suggested this idea said that
she and her husband “enjoyed planning the menu, shopping for the meal,
and ultimately preparing the meal together. Cooking to soft, romantic
music can really be a turn on! While dining, the same soft, romantic
music is a wonderful mood-setter. Dinner was followed by just the two of
us having the whole dance floor, our den, to ourselves. I won’t say
what all this led to, but it was a truly romantic night that would not
have happened at the local restaurant!”
6. Order food from a take-out restaurant and have a
picnic for all the Valentines in your family on your living room floor.
The person who suggested this said, “The kids look forward to this
every year. When we tried to change it, they wouldn’t allow it ... it
has become a tradition. The kids see the value of family and a loving
marriage.”
7. Privacy and weather permitting, watch a romantic movie on your deck or patio.
8. If you are separated across the miles, send a care package filled with things that are red.
9. Make a meal with symbols of love. Examples: Write I love you with string beans, make a tart in the shape of a heart …
10. Hide little heart candies in your spouse’s
shoes, coat, car, etc. The woman who suggested this said that she’s been
doing this for decades. “Now a couple of the grandkids help me with
delight.”